If 2017 was anything for you like it was for me, then I know you learned one hell of a lesson or two from life and love. If I didn't know any better I would say 2017 was a year of breaking. However, the fact that we are closing this year off and it did not destroy us (maybe bruised us) mentally, spiritually and emotionally, we have a lot to be thankful for. When I say breaking, I don't automatically see a period of time where we experienced a lot of trauma. However, I envision a (re)defining, sculpting, cultivating and planting of our mind and heart. We learned "how to" from all sorts of situations. And many of those situations taught us...
The Toxic Lover For the past few weeks, I have been processing life, really trying to figure out a few things, because it was beyond time for me to do so. In the process of my many moments in solitude, I had to be very honest with myself. I actually woke up today and washed my face. A metaphor I say when I am ready to address me and make changes I need. The way I held on and the way I loved was not healthy. The "depth" of my love was very toxic because I made my relationship at the center of my world. Everything about everything was based solely on the woman in my life.Not only that, I attached...
What's Good Lovers!!! Believe it or not, I look forward to our Thursdays together. It's always refreshing to think how something in this newsletter might positively impact whoever reads it. Big up to all BABL dope subscribers.If any of you are like me, January was pretty a good month for you. It wasn't all that rough, yet there were some suspect moments, but for the most part, January was very decent. As with all new things, discarding of bad habits and/or people are up for the chopping block, and relationships are often the first on the list. Now what's beautiful is the evolution and the manifestation of personal liberties, which aid in the creation of a global synergy of like-mindedness. However, with...
Hello Lovers!I hope this communication reach each of you in good health and if you're not in great spirits, with each keystroke I give myself in its purest form. I hope you can feel my positive vibrations because I am freely giving them to you.Lately, I have been asking myself where does true freedom come from? As I am figuring out the recipe of becoming my master self, I have a lot of talk time in the mirror. And whether it's the mirror in my bathroom, my journal or my reflection on some reflective surface, I am constantly seeking the answers to what feels like bottomless questions. However, one thing I have learned to be a sure solid is honesty....
I knew it, but I don't think I wanted to admit it. A portion of my life was not being healed because I decided to hide in the shadows of my dishonesty. However, at night, especially the lonely ones, I felt it... and I mean all of it. Why was it that I could feel, interpret, and hold a healing space for others regarding love, but unable to access my complete truth when it related to my own?
